well, i guess it’s better to know that you are loved for who you really are than whom you are not. Can’t be a fantasy in the other’s imagination; neither can we love a fantasy. so there should be reasons for infatuation, yet you can possibly choose to be sedate about them (LOL).
love is not unconditional. qualities of character which pick out the other person as ‘special’ have become euqally important as innocence, the ‘conditions’ to make possible a sexually and emotioanlly equal love relationship.
however, since passionate love can make one feel better than who she/he really is, it also leads to disillusionment or even self destruction once the beloved chooses to withdraw.
hmmm…sorry for making it too analytical. can’t help it since i’m doing my research on love. =). Anyway, enjoy it and be appreciative whenever you have the chance.
哇~很甜的感觉~~
没有想到你也那么感性~~
哇
哇
哇
@_@”
有点鸡皮疙瘩的感觉。。哈哈哈
画面里的蜻蜓是不是有特别的含义?!嘿嘿
有没有你的撒娇?
愛,是不需要原因的…
我来对号入座….
有条件的爱……
爱是盲目的?
我是在糊里糊涂的情况下被带引进来的蜜蜂
蜻蜓要飞了?@@
well, i guess it’s better to know that you are loved for who you really are than whom you are not. Can’t be a fantasy in the other’s imagination; neither can we love a fantasy. so there should be reasons for infatuation, yet you can possibly choose to be sedate about them (LOL).
love is not unconditional. qualities of character which pick out the other person as ‘special’ have become euqally important as innocence, the ‘conditions’ to make possible a sexually and emotioanlly equal love relationship.
however, since passionate love can make one feel better than who she/he really is, it also leads to disillusionment or even self destruction once the beloved chooses to withdraw.
hmmm…sorry for making it too analytical. can’t help it since i’m doing my research on love. =). Anyway, enjoy it and be appreciative whenever you have the chance.
Appreciate for what it is.
嗯,其實,我愛你不需要原因。
Jue, what a good word- Infatuation
Infatuation is a strange thing
a bony creature thin
with feeding on itself
迷恋是一件奇异的事
一个骨瘦如材的人
以自己喂养自己 by Jewel
盲目吧
爱情是要盲目的。 盲心。 盲听。
JYing,宋朝柳咏的<蝶恋花>里"衣带渐宽终不悔,为伊消得人憔悴"这句讲得也是同样的境界吧.